By Boyd Ensley
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College is a time of growth, change and social vibrance. However, many students continue to face loneliness and isolation. One way to combat widespread disconnection is through third places, which play a vital role in fostering friendships and meaningful interactions.
The term “third place” stems from sociologist Ray Oldenburg and his book The Great Good Place, in which he defines these spaces as “informal public gathering places that are essential for community life, distinct from the home and the workplace. These are spaces where people can relax, socialize and foster a sense of belonging.” Finding these locations can be challenging, but discovering the right third place can greatly enrich the college experience. Whether it is the library, gym, dormitory common area or an outdoor space on campus, there is a third place for every personality.
Despite their importance, third places are at risk nationwide. The rise of portable headphones and earbuds has created a social norm of solitude. Many traditional third places now require purchases, limiting accessibility. In a time like college—when connection is essential—students should not only take advantage of free spaces that foster community but also go the extra mile to embrace social interactions.
So, challenge yourself. Next time you walk to class or sit down in a campus coffee shop, take a break from the music and experience the social buzz of your university. While nothing may change instantly, you are opening the door to new connections and conversations.
College is more than lectures and lessons—it’s about exposure to new people, ideas and experiences. By engaging in third places and stepping outside your comfort zone, you’re not just improving your social life—you’re making the most of the college journey.
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