How to Throw the Perfect 21st Birthday Party

By Sophie Masi

After spending the weekend celebrating finally being 21 with family and friends, I would say I am officially qualified to give tips on how to have a party that's special to you and your loved ones! There are a few things essential to have a great time during birthday festivities. 

Decorations!

Setting up the party space to match your vision is a great way to ensure memorable photos that you’ll want to look back on. Whether friends help make a custom banner or you decide to create some of your own decorations, personalize the space to reflect your style. It’s your day—celebrate it however you like.

Fun Drinks!

What’s a 21st birthday without a festive drink or two? Crafting themed cocktails or Jell-O shots can add a unique touch, but if mixing drinks isn’t your style, focus on fun glassware. Many stores now sell decorative glasses perfect for a celebratory toast and for later additions to your bar cart.

An Outfit You Love

Wearing an outfit that makes you feel confident can set the tone for a great night. Whether it’s a sparkly mini dress or your favorite pair of jeans, choose something that makes you feel comfortable and happy. Feeling your best is essential for a celebration, so prioritize what makes you feel confident.

Cake and Candles!

There’s something timeless about gathering with loved ones for cake and candles. Choose a cake in your favorite flavor, and consider decorations like personalized icing or fun candles to make your wish extra memorable. The tradition of blowing out candles with friends adds a special touch to the night.

Your Friends!

A birthday celebration is truly made by the people there to celebrate with you. Great friends might travel to be there, help with decorations, or simply make you feel appreciated on your special day. Whether you plan a night out or a cozy gathering at home, it’s the people around you that make the day meaningful.

By focusing on what makes you happy and inviting those who mean the most to you, you can create a 21st birthday celebration that feels uniquely yours.